Sunday, May 18, 2008

Lazy Sunday Afternoon

I spent the afternoon watching one of my all time favorite movies, Shakespere in Love.
I'm not quite sure what it says to me as a man that two of my favorite movies ever are Shakespeare in Love and Sense and Sensibility (#1). I'm either a romantic or a pansy.
I pray it's the former.

I love the way the movie attempts to delve into the mind of young William as he starts to write Romeo and Juliet, whose working title was Romeo and Ethel the Pirate's Daughter.
Yikes. Doesn't quite have the same effect does it? My favorite part is towards the end when the play is actually performed before a live audience. The reaction of the crowd really pulls you in, like you're there.

It reminded me of a time many years ago.
The time was the summer of 1969.
The place was the Lansdale theater, our small town movie venue.
The movie was the 1968 version of Romeo and Juliet.
I was 12 years old.

I don't remember why I was there by myself (I enjoyed solitude) but I do remember there weren't many people in the theater. I sat in the middle of the cool theater (it was a hot summer day) mesmerized by Olivia Hussey, the 15 year old Juliet.
Hubba, hubba.. what a vision of beauty. She is considered by many to be one of the most beautiful women in the world.

As a 12 year old, I thoroughly enjoyed the action scenes as the Capulets and the Montagues fought in the streets. I even enjoyed the King's English, as it was probably the first time I was ever exposed to it. But it was the love story that truly captured my heart, even at that young age. As the tears trickled down my face when Juliet finds that her Romeo has ended his life and then takes her own, I was glad to be alone.

Great movie. Great story. Great Song.


Saturday, May 17, 2008

I Remember

What we remember from childhood we remember forever .... ~ Cynthia Ozick

Why is that? Why is it easier for me to remember what happened when I was 12 than what happened last week? For the past few years I have found myself drifting back to memories of my youth, often with vivid clarity. Is that a normal thing? Does it have anything to do with getting old?

Is it true that we tend to remember the good things in our past and forget the bad? I know that's the case with me. It's not that I have forgotten the painful things in my past, it's just that it's easier to retrieve the good.

One of the things I fear the most in my pilgrimage and as this body ages is the loss of my memory. I have a deathly fear of Alzheimer's. How frightening and frustrating it must be to not be able to remember the past. I am so thankful that I live in a post-photographic age. How did our ancestors conjure up accurate images of their past?

Music is something that triggers memories of my youth. I was out on a bike ride a few weeks ago with my iPod. My favorite play list was on: songs from 1967-69. In those summer years I was 10, 11 and 12 years old. Probably one of the best times of my life. The music was great. Friends were close and girls weren't threatening yet. I remember:
  • Little League baseball
  • 4th street pool, white's road pool
  • the Strunks (JP, Julie, Suzy, Mary), Kathy Folkes, Debbie Guilliano
  • Ed, Bob, Vince, Tim Landers
  • bike rides to Knapp school
  • the annual Y fair
  • my cousins
  • staying up late waiting for Mom to come home (she worked 2nd shift)
  • crossing the Delaware
  • walking Mainstreet

If those 3 years were the best, the next 3 would be the worst. Music pulled me through all 6.

This one's from 1969.



Thursday, May 15, 2008

You Say It's Your Birthday

20 seven year olds
150 water balloons
10 water pistols
1 slip and slide
1 pirate ship
1 tired grandfather

Happy Birthday to the little guy.

Link: sevenload.com